comfortable with ourselves.

We [cleo and I] have been 24/7 together nearly two and a half years now, and each day we still learn things, and happen upon unexpected discoveries about one another. In all that time our view of our relationship has changed many times, in that we have described ourselves within the lifestyle in many different ways. At first we worried about what people thought of us. In fact so much so that we were probably influenced by others. With time spent together comes experience, and a knowledge that we are what we are, and now we only really answer to each other about what we do.

Being comfortable with, and in each other's company also gives us a strength that few manage to obtain. Because we don't answer to anyone else, we don't need to concern ourselves with what they think of us. Our D/s is what we make it. It is both personal and private. We rarely discuss in public the actualities of what we do, or how. We see no need, frankly, to tell others about our private moments. What we are happy to demonstrate is how strong our relationship is: and of course that is created by not only our lifestyle choice, but by the fact, whether through luck or judgement that we are matched in almost every way. We think the same thoughts, like and dislike the same things, and for the most part are in tune on pretty much everything we do.

Of course finding that soulmate is based on luck: however, having found the one it is so important that we take the opportunity thats presented and go with it. Whatever that may mean. Too many live in the comfort zone of what they have, afraid to break out and take that big leap of faith to grasp what they know is really right for them. To those I say "you are not as comitted as you would have us believe".