Continual Improvement

As owners of Seekers, and all the attached subdomains, we have always prided ourselves on creating sites that served a purpose, and had good information. One of the problems with having several sites, is that its very easy for them to be "stand alone" and visitors to one site rarely get the opportunity to see another. Well, this weekend we have done something about that. Seekers home page now has links to all the sites we run.

Look at the new Seekers.org.uk: Home page.

I have to say I am very proud of how the new page looks, and how it works, as I believe few non-professional designers could create such a clean page design as this. As always cleo and I work on these projects as a team. We are a team in everything we do. Teamwork is all important. To achieve that of course you need understanding and communication: both of which we have in abundance. In my personal site Presence of Mind , I have begun to expound my own philosophy on D/s. Most of it is basic common sense. Click here to read it.

What it boils down to is that we have to have an understanding of our partner, and ourselves, and find ways that both our needs and wants can fit together to be mutually satisfying. As with anything if one or the other of you is not satisfied, or fulfilled then the relationship is doomed to failure.

Sometimes of course that understanding can be stretched to the limit. Take this weekend, for example. We had an opportunity to play on friday evening (no kids, no work) but it slipped by, yet again. Why? not sure, except that it just didn't happen. I know that cleo was upset we didn't manage to do anything, but even so, I know she accepts that if the mindset is not right, it won't happen. She herself has had times like this. Try as you may, you just can't get the right effect from whatever the stimulus is. Still, I am thankful that our relationship is one which is so strong that these times of struggle will never dent what we have. For that I have to thank my cleo, for her support, and love, and encouragement. Our lives are one long round of trying to improve what we have, often against all the odds, and circumstances over which we have little control. Very like our web designing though, we are always looking to make things better, and if we dont get there first time, we will keep trying till we get it right. The seekers site is a good example. We are always looking at it to see if we can make it better, and always ready to try new things, to see if they work. This is much like our D/s, we will always try new things, which seem to be mutually worthwhile, and which may just add an extra something to that which we already have. Mind you, it doesnt get much better than this!!

Thank you slave!