Hidden Talents
There are talents within us all. Many of us know what we do, and what we do well. Similarly, we know which things we would rather not do because we feel that we do them less well. Sometimes, and this is particularly true in the submissive nature, there is a real element of low self esteem which is all pervading: " I can't do that, i'll spoil it.. I will make a mistake.. i am not good enough" etc etc
Well, while i understand that is a trait in subs, what we, as Dominants should be doing is praising our subs to the high heavens when we get the chance, because frankly the submissive nature is about failing, and fear of failing. In reality, submissives are by definition, tough people. they endure things that many Doms would not. Many subs have great talent, if only we would give them the encouragement to let it shine.
Now take as an example, my cleo. She often says that she cannot write, and is full of the fear that when she does people will ridicule her, for her style, and her ideas. Not so! She is a great writer, and has more good ideas, and more D/s knowledge than most other people I know. She spends hours and hours trawling through sites, reading all she can. She is like a sponge. Everything and anything pertaining to D/s she will read, retain, and inwardly digest.
She has recently undertaken at my request, the writing of her own blog, and here i would commend it to anyone who likes a good read. She has much to say, but not only that, it's the way she says it. She has a style which many would envy, and which a lot of highly paid journalists don't have.
You can find her blog at http://satinandlace.blogspot.com/ where you will find an articulate, and honest account of daily life as a submissive. I suggest that it is well worth a read, and that once read, you may want to go back and see it again and again. I do, and though i am biased, I believe that while cleo always says I am the one with the writing capabilities, I am probably too serious, her style is very conversational, and easy to read.
I simply say, click that link, and go enjoy.
Well, while i understand that is a trait in subs, what we, as Dominants should be doing is praising our subs to the high heavens when we get the chance, because frankly the submissive nature is about failing, and fear of failing. In reality, submissives are by definition, tough people. they endure things that many Doms would not. Many subs have great talent, if only we would give them the encouragement to let it shine.
Now take as an example, my cleo. She often says that she cannot write, and is full of the fear that when she does people will ridicule her, for her style, and her ideas. Not so! She is a great writer, and has more good ideas, and more D/s knowledge than most other people I know. She spends hours and hours trawling through sites, reading all she can. She is like a sponge. Everything and anything pertaining to D/s she will read, retain, and inwardly digest.
She has recently undertaken at my request, the writing of her own blog, and here i would commend it to anyone who likes a good read. She has much to say, but not only that, it's the way she says it. She has a style which many would envy, and which a lot of highly paid journalists don't have.
You can find her blog at http://satinandlace.blogspot.com/ where you will find an articulate, and honest account of daily life as a submissive. I suggest that it is well worth a read, and that once read, you may want to go back and see it again and again. I do, and though i am biased, I believe that while cleo always says I am the one with the writing capabilities, I am probably too serious, her style is very conversational, and easy to read.
I simply say, click that link, and go enjoy.
posted by Paul Knox at
1:57:00 am
1 Comments:
Thank you my Master for your prase and encouragement without which i doubt i would ever have put pen to paper in cyber terms.
i shall try and continue to make you proud of me for in doing so, i can add something else to your life and that is my main purpose, to make you happy.
As always Sir, Your slave,
cleo
xoxox
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