Knowing is enough

Sometimes we need the physical. That need is one which must be served and when it's there it can scream out until it is satisfied. The D/s lifestyle is denoted not just by physical actions but to a large degree by a mental state of mind. If the mental state is right then quite often the physical requirement can be less important.

This week we have found that in our life. It is rare for cleo to say to me "I don't need physical, mental is enough. Just being there".

In a sense it defines our equilibrium, and our togetherness. We KNOW who we are, and what we mean to each other, and the mental satisfaction we derive from that, for this week at least, has been enough. Yes, we are still Master and sub, and yes we are a real life D/s couple, but our knowledge of that permeates everything we do. We don't have to prove it in a physical demonstration to us or anyone else. We don't have to shout it from the rooftops or declare what we have. For us the knowledge is enough.

Of course in the next days and weeks we will not refrain from the physical things we do; thats not what i am saying at all. In fact I expect that when we resume that the week or so break we have had will likely make our subsequent play even more intense.